Thursday, December 29, 2022

Advice

 OptimalConcept143:


You can calculate the percentage of something by multiplying it by a number between 0 and 1. Want 80% of something? Multiply by 0.8. Want 180% of something? Multiply by 1.8.

The fact there's a percentage button on many calculators shows that this very basic idea is not well known as it should be....

Advice

 velociraptorcock69 posted this on Reddit:


that alcohol is a depressant, not a stimulant.

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 shecallsmeherangel posted this on Reddit:


This may not be common sense, but I feel like people need to hear it anyway. I have three very different jobs, and I'll tell you a few things that I wish more people knew from each of them:

1) Do not remove an impaled object! Unless it is in your cheek, obstructing your airway, DO NOT pull it out. It may be the only thing keeping you from bleeding out. If you MUST remove it without medical personnel, pull it in the continuing direction that it was travelling. Never remove anything from the chest, abdomen, skull, or throat without medical training and assistance.

2) If you are frustrated with a baby, put it in the other room and WALK AWAY. Letting them cry themselves to sleep is a lot less traumatic for an infant than shaken baby syndrome. Walk away.

3) If you are nice to a cashier, they will be nicer to you. I cannot explain how far that a friendly, "Hi. How are you? .... Thank you. Have a good day." Will go! Be nice to your service workers! We can't make the world go 'round but we will sure as hell try harder for people who are nice to us.

4) If you accidentally break something in a chain-level grocery store, tell an employee immediately. You will most likely not get in trouble, you probably won't have to pay for it (if it is larger than a family-owned business), and it saves employees from having to stumble upon spoiled food and mess tracks hours later, or worse, another customer coming across it and screaming at workers to take care of it. Just tell us, please.

5) Do not cram the night before an exam. An all nighter before finals will not make up for a semester's worth of studying. You are better off going in well rested and unread, than sleep deprived and juggling information.

6) Just show up! Whether it is school, work, a job interview, a social gathering, an appointment, or whatever it is, if you are expected to be there, show up. Even if you are late, showing up is better than nothing! If you know you will be late, call ahead if possible; call to excuse your absence if you cannot make it before the event is over. This comes from two of my jobs: employers would rather have someone who is late than someone who is absent; and students will do better in classes if they are late than if they don't go.

7) Speeding will not get you to your destination any faster. Reckless speeding will get you into a hospital bed or a casket before it will get you to your destination. Fifteen miles an hour over the limit will get you fifteen miles further in one hour, but will add an approximate 16,500 N of force to any crash you get into (it only takes 4,000 N per in² to break your femur).

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Aspiring_Optimist_61 posted this on Reddit: 


Coworkers and parents who have never used a Ctrl + S, P, Z etc. I tell someone a keyboard shortcut and their mind is blow! Or Alt+Tab to quickly switch between open programs! I’m a genius!!

Advice

 MakennaTalia posted this on Reddit:


Don’t put water on a grease fire. This is when your pan/pot catches fire while cooking.

Cover it with the pot or pan lid and turn off the heat

Edit: people in the replies have also added that baking soda and salt can work to smother the fire. Additionally a grease fire safe extinguisher is a good thing to have in your kitchen.

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 aita_writing posted this on Reddit:

If your car gets stuck in snow, take out the floor mats and stick them under your tires as best you can, in the direction you are wanting to go (so the tires can drive on them). This helps give you some traction. You can reuse this technique as far as needed, just parking, getting out, and moving the floor mats back to right in front/behind your tires.

It irks me when I watch TV shows where the characters get stuck and can't get out of the snow, when they clearly have floor mats in their car. It has come to my attention over the past couple years that a lot of people don't know this, so now I try and bring it up every time it remotely comes up in a convo.

Also, keep emergency supplies in your vehicle. Jumper cables, a flashlight and batteries (keep them stored separately because corrosion), food/water, gloves, winter boots if applicable where you are, etc. Also, look up the underwater car episode of Mythbusters, just good to know 

Friday, December 23, 2022

I read 200 books in 2022!!!

 Color me delighted!!!! I followed Warren Buffett's advice. I desire to repeat this task in 2023.

Holiday Wishes

May everyone stay wrapped in love, joy, and peace!!!!

May everyone's belly be full of scrumptious food and exquisite drink!!!!

May everyone stay in the company of those that love them and protect their well-being!!!!


May Christmas and New Year 2023 rain blessings upon the needy!!!!


Tuesday, May 10, 2022

Some tidbits on me

 Defendo a alfabetização e a numeracia. Estou muita mais preocupada com a alfabetização, mas todos deveriam saber aritmética básica.

                English translation: I advocate for literacy and numeracy. I am far more concerned with literacy but everyone should know basic arithmetic.


Estou ofendida com a queima de livros.

                English translation: I am offended by book burning.






The Berenstain Bears: God Made The Seasons by Stan and Jan Berenstain with Mike Berenstain




   I appreciate that the Berenstains have acquired a clear stance on Christianity. It's not far-fetched that the Berenstains endorse Christianity because the stories have always been wholesome. I pray that the grandchildren and further descendants of Stan and Jan Berenstain continue the family legacy.


Long live the Berenstains!!!
 

rating 5 out of 5 stars

Black Girl in Paris: a novel by Shay Youngblood

 





original comments from February 2004: Vividly written, Black Girl in Paris freshly tells the literary growth of Eden. She is enriched by her experiences as a struggling writer in the chic French capital. She encounters various types of relationships, interracial, sapphic, and a May-December. Thought-provoking and sensual.

current recollection: I first became aware of this novel from reading Essence. There is a classy eroticism to this novel. Subtlety and clarity meld in this novel. J'adore.


rating 5 out of 5 stars

The Justus Girls: a novel by Evelyn Lambright

 




I read this novel in January 2004. I decline to post my initial review because it was actually a book summary. That's unjust to Miss Lambright. No foolishness or fakery in this story. Four friends who lived in the trenches and hugged each other through the war. It speaks volumes about what the publishing industry holds valuable because I have not seen another work by Miss Lambright. Oops!!! I stand corrected. I almost confirmed my ignorance!!! Thank goodness, I just went on the MSN search engine and learned that Miss Lambright has published another novel. Why just two? I pray Miss Lambright didn't get discouraged. No, I don't believe that.


Brilliance often accompanies realness. A lot of people can't handle that.

rating 5 out of 5 stars

Thursday, February 10, 2022

Cook Korean! A Comic Book with Recipes by Robin Ha


 I saw two recipes in this book that I would eagerly cook: Chile Chicken Stew and Brown Sugar Pancakes. One of my aunties would love these recipes. The problem rests in the fact that she has been occupying herself away from books. I mention books to my Auntie but I keep hoping she'll return to the love.


Thank you, Robin Ha and her mother, for writing this book.

rating: 5 out of 5 stars

The Soul of a Woman by Isabel Allende

 



Initially, I was repelled from this book because the subtitle includes "good witches". I resisted and then I decided to be brave. A good witch will not cause harm. So delighted that I read this jewel!!! I read it in a matter of hours. I want women to ascend into places of power so that we cease from suffering. Nor do I want men to suffer as we have.


A world with love, joy, and peace that we share with each other!!!


rating: 5 out of 5 stars

A Cry from the Streets: Rescuing Brazil's Forgotten Children by Jeannette Lukasse

 


Volunteering with this organization sounds life-changing. I know it would deepen my gratitude. It would reframe my perspective on life. Plus, I would get to see if I could live in Brazil. I know I am not a missionary but reading this book gives me fuel to directly assist with this organization. The time will come.

rating: 5 out of 5 stars

In the Company of Women: Inspiration and Advice from over 100 Makers, Artists, and Entrepreneurs by Grace Bonney


 This tome doesn't exhaust the reader. I took a break from it because I enmeshed with other books. Of course, we create but we must possess business acumen so we thrive and survive. We need multitudes of women to ascend into the arts. 

rating: 5 out of 5 stars


Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide by Nicholas D. Kristoff and Sheryl DuWunn


 Oppression wounds the entire population. It proves short-sighted to alienate people. When will people in power see that we have a world of untapped geniuses? Hope has not been extinguished. It relieved me to read of Goretti Nyabenda of Burundi. She had suffered under submission to an abusive, alcoholic husband which magnified their poverty. Frustrated with their circumstances, Goretti advocated for herself and lifted her family. Her husband began to respect her. Everything improves when a woman respects herself.

rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Friday, January 28, 2022

Namoro inter-racial (Interracial dating)

 A sociedade global não me dá a opção de detestar o namoro interracial. Vejo infinitas combinações para o romance. Eu sou uma mulher negra com uma tez chocolate. Atualmente, perdi mais de 50 quilos. Anseio por me ver esbelta. Estou convencido de que a vida se abrirá em abundância quando eu perder o excesso de peso. Subi as escadas hoje e a tensão foi muito menor. Estou aliviado. Sem truques extravagantes. Eu como quando estou com fome e bebo muita água. Eu mantenho frutas e legumes na minha geladeira. Eu gosto de Mango Madness da Snapple. Vou saber se amo mangas quando for ao Brasil. Li e vi fotos de seus frutos. Fruta= comida requintada!!! Além disso, comer frutas com água fria me refresca.


The global society doesn't provide me with the option to detest interracial dating. I see infinite combinations for romance. I am a black woman with a chocolate complexion. Currently, I have lost more than 50 pounds. I yearn to see myself svelte. I am convinced that life will open abundantly when I shed the excess weight. I walked up the stairs today and the strain was far lesser. I am relieved. No fancy tricks. I eat when I am hungry and I drink plenty of water. I keep fruit and vegetables in my refrigerator. I enjoy Mango Madness from Snapple. I'll know if I love mangoes when I go to Brazil. I have read and I have seen photographs of their fruit. Fruit= exquisite food!!! Plus, eating fruit with cold water refreshes me. 










Uma opinião sobre atração

Se você ama duas pessoas ao mesmo tempo, escolha a segunda. Porque se você realmente amasse o primeiro, não teria se apaixonado pelo segundo.~ Johnny Depp


Cada pessoa deve falar a sua verdade. Mas mantenho-me firme nesta questão. Eu ficaria desconfortável com alguém olhando para mim com olhos de luxúria, amor ou desejo, quando todos sabem que o observador tem um parceiro. Não acredito que precise me sentir atraída por alguém simplesmente porque a pessoa gosta de mim. As pessoas fingem atração muitas vezes.


If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second. ~ Johnny Depp


Each person must speak their truth. But I stand firm on this issue. I would be uncomfortable with someone looking at me with eyes of lust, love or desire, when everyone knows the observer has a partner. I don't believe I need to be attracted to someone just because they like me. People fake attraction a lot.










Renato Alves Menezes Barreto e Cynthia Helena Ribeiro Luz: um casal

 Até ouvir Efeito Violeta, achava Cynthia Luz fraca sozinha. Alguns cantores podem cantar a caixa de cereal e soar maravilhosos. Cynthia Luz precisa se relacionar com suas letras e batidas.


Eles parecem chiques e soam sexy !!! 










The Skin I'm In: a novel by Sharon G. Flake

 



I ordered the follow-up to this novel. Maleeka lacked a backbone yet possessed massive writing gifts. I was grateful she finally found her strength.

rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Thursday, January 27, 2022

Chaka! Through the Fire by Chaka Khan with Tonya Bolden

 


Chaka toned herself WAYYYYY down. She admitted her addictions but she deleted meticulous detail about events. There wasn't much discussion about sex but she did discuss love. She admitted the songs she loves are not always the hits. She doesn't mind using the word 'never'. Hmm, that seems outlandish but this is Chaka Khan so I should not be surprised.


This autobiography packs some wisdom.

rating: 4 out of 5 stars

Wednesday, January 19, 2022

Wild, Wicked & Wanton: 101 Ways To Love Like You're in a Romance Novel by Christie Craig and Faye Hughes

 



I thought I wanted these types of problems.

Thank you for your candor, ladies!!! 

rating: 5 out of 5 stars




Eroticism does not fail to intrigue but I want a husband who shares a deep and abiding love with me. I DON'T want a long list of boyfriends. I am surprised that more women did not buy this book.


Random Family: Love, Drugs, Trouble, and Coming of Age in the Bronx by Adrian Nicole Leblanc

 


The first time I read this book, I left a scathing review on Amazon. The second time I read this book, I feel ashamed for my haughtiness. The saying, 'deal with the cards you're dealt'. I ask this, what happens if you can't afford a deck of cards?


Random Family: Love, Drugs, Trouble, and Coming of Age in the Bronx reveals how one family chose to buy decks of cards.

rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Sunday, January 9, 2022

Wise Women: A Celebration of Their Insights, Courage, and Beauty by Joyce Tenneson

 



Resplendent portraits in sepia form the visual collective of this book. Each sage provides a quote on any issue of merit. Some women elected to share the photograph with another woman, a relative or a friend. All female subjects but some had not crossed the threshold into 60. I anticipated a lengthy profile of each woman. Perhaps Joyce Tenneson prefers spare prose. I applaud this work.


rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Go To Sleep, I Miss You: Cartoons from the Fog of New Parenthood by Lucy Knisley

 


Lucy Knisley serves delights. This book, which I enjoyed over a Sunday afternoon, presents the tossing of emotions that many mothers experience. The succinctness gives laughter.

I choose to demonstrate more empathy for parents with screaming babies. There exists infinite ways to raise a child. Many of us have tremors finding just one.

rating: 4 out of 5 stars

Tuesday, January 4, 2022

The Canary Journal: a novel

 My first book, The Canary Journal: a novel, is available on Amazon Kindle.


My author page link:

https://www.amazon.com/author/karah.khalia_726