I have been reading several articles and blogs on the issues of sex, love and dating. There is so much confusion and conflict about these topics that sometimes I think it would be easier to maintain a state of platonic relationships. On one blog, a man suggested that a woman wait one week before going to bed with someone. He completely disregards disease, pregnancy, the potential "Fatal Attraction", or anything undesirable. One thing is certain: know who you are and stay in growth mode. Otherwise, it is simple to fall into a cesspool.